The plan

The plan
It’s simple really - 26 dates over 52 weeks. That’s one for each letter of the alphabet from Ascot to the Zoo.

It seems like we're always out but at the same haunts - a cardinal sin when London has so many other things to offer. We're taking it in turns to organise each date and to come up with the most original and entertaining alternatives to 'dinner and drinks'. There’s no restriction in terms of length of time or cost and after each date, we put a date in the diary for the next one.

OK so the idea isn’t original but hopefully some of our ideas will be. One of my colleagues laughed out loud when I told her the plan - yes, I know it sounds a bit too much like organised fun and no, different sexual positions are not a viable option (look out for Alphasex Dating coming soon).

The blog
This is going to take a while so I wanted to share our experience…and to steal other people’s ideas and suggestions over the coming year. We’re also on Twitter @alphabetdating and welcome emails to
alphabetdating@gmail.com.

Tuesday, 17 July 2012

Alternative 'B' dates

By the way, other ideas for dates beginning with 'B', thanks to the girls at work, include:
Enjoy!
Rebecca x

Sunday, 15 July 2012

B is for...brunch and Bauhaus


After almost a year’s wait, I was a little worried with what Rebecca had in mind for the letter ‘B’. Let’s not forget, I had her draw an old guy’s balls for our last date…

I admit I first heard about alphabet dating while listening to the Guardian’s Football Weekly podcast. Yes, useful things can come from football. But no, sadly A is not for Aldershot, B for Barnet etc…

We were both feeling a little worse for wear on the morning of the long awaited date and woke up in a mild state of panic, scrabbling around to find something that would tell us the time. Once we’d realised we weren’t going to be too late, we calmed down. So I was lovingly presented with a little card that read “B is for…brunch and Bauhaus”.

Having worked in Clerkenwell for the last five years until recently, I always knew I’d never made the most of the area. I had my favourite spots, like CafĂ© Kick and Caravan on Exmouth Market, or the Jerusalem Tavern and The Dovetail, but after brunch at The Modern Pantry it became apparent that I’d made a few glaring omissions.
We arrived and waited patiently to be seated, only to be queue jumped by a man claiming he needed to get out of the sun. It was true, he was ginger and looked like he was burning by the second, but still. When we were eventually shown upstairs to our table, we entered a dining room of wooden floorboards painted white, grey walls and a huge gilt framed mirror. This place is pretty much our fantasy lottery home. If we win, we’ll keep the kitchen staff on.

Bloody Marys arrived swiftly, followed by a refreshing elderflower and Earl Grey iced tea for Rebecca and a black coffee for me. We were both struggling with the menu as we wanted everything. In the end, Rebecca opted for poached eggs on toast with haloumi, spinach and slow-roast vine ripened tomatoes while I decided on poached eggs with chorizo and plantain. Heaven. As was a cheeky glass of bubbly.

A short journey followed to take us to the Bauhaus exhibition at the Barbican. I’ve wanted to see this for quite a while and was impressed that Rebecca had made note. Germany in the 1920s and 30s, particularly Berlin, is in my top three time traveling destinations of choice. Happy to skip the 40s.

I love the way so much output from the Bauhaus movement resonates today, from fonts to furniture. The exhibition is a delight and much larger than we had anticipated - from the movement’s origins in Weimar, moving on to Dessau, and finally to its eventual closure in Berlin. One of my favourite objects in the entire collection of the British Museum is a little tea infuser, and it’s here on loan, alongside so many other everyday objects of beautiful simplicity. I’m also surprised to see a fun side as well, not just in the photographs of teachers and students, but also the puppets and children’s toys that were made.
  
Rebecca, as an events planner, loves the photos and invitations from the school’s infamous parties – they had thrown a elaborate themed events, including the ‘white party’, ‘metal party’ (guests entered through a long steel slide) and a ‘beard, nose and heart party’. She intends taking inspiration from the latter for an upcoming wedding…

We leave and I’m very happy with the letter B. I hadn’t really thought too much about what it was going to be and I’ve been suitably impressed. Bamboozled. I’d better get it together for C...

And the scores are in:
  • Originality = 7/10 (I had said I wanted to go to the exhibition, but brunch was a lovely surprise...)
  • Atmosphere = 8/10 (A very relaxing afternoon)
  • Delivery = 7/10 (I liked the card reveal, plus the whole thing was a surprise)
A grand total of 22/30. I'm a point and a half down. Not that we're competitive...it's the thought that counts*.
David

* and winning

Friday, 10 June 2011

A is for...art class

"Meet me at Angel station at 6.15pm" instructed David's email. I showed the girls and there followed a flurry of excitement as we discussed what it could be. Having highlighted the fact that simply booking a restaurant beginning with the letter 'A' was not imaginative enough, I know I have put the pressure on him to surprise me.

When I get to the station, there are about 30 people waiting for friends to arrive. David spots me and presents me with a smart black envelope labeled “A is for…”. And inside the words “Art class”. How exciting (and unexpected)!!
David admits that he had had a fairly unproductive day at work, that primarily consisted of printing labels and sticking them on envelopes... I am doubtful that we'll make it to 'Z' but ever the optimist, David insists we'll stick at it.
We arrive at the Candid Gallery where we have a drink in the cute cafe. I'm already feeling a bit nervous, ridiculous as it sounds, fearing that the potential for total humiliation is high. Nevertheless we go down to the studio, where we discover a big group of both regulars and newcomers setting up their sketchbooks and taping paper to the easels. Again I'm impressed that David has done his research and knows that we can buy paper for 25 pence a sheet and charcoal at 25 pence a stick. Others around us have brought their own materials and I can feel a sense of dread in my stomach as I imagine just how awful I am going to be at this. We find a spot in the back corner.

The warm-up terrifies me - David has abandoned me for the loo, I have no idea where to start and can't bring myself to put charcoal to paper. I tentatively draw a line then immediately smudge it out. I fear that this is going to be a long night...

The model makes four or five short poses and during one of these, the tutor, recognising the look of pain on my face (and my frankly shocking first attempt), provides me and David with some advice on where to start and how to get the proportions right. Having never had a drawing class before, it's useful advice and I find the 15-minute poses easier to tackle.

At the break, our tutor tells us about an exhibition launch that's going on upstairs in the gallery space and hands us a free drinks voucher. I almost decline as I'd vowed to give up booze Monday to Friday ahead of my holiday (yes, another one of my half-arsed ideas) but reeling from my poor attempt at 'art', I'm soon downing a glass of red wine.

Two glugs in and I'm reminding David that a) I really don't like being told what to do, b) I don't like being bad at things and c) I haven't done art since I was 14, when I gave it up at the first opportunity. His response is that he knew it was a risk but thought that I'd be game to give it a go. I sometimes think he gives me a bit too much credit... However he is now looking a little forlorn so I reassure him that I'm enjoying the class and vow to myself that I will make more effort in the last section.
Back in the studio, Mike the model is in his final pose. I've forgotten all of the tips I've been given but happily get to work, thanks to that one glass of wine. The alcohol has had the opposite effect on David, who sighs and puffs loudly for the last half an hour.

I'm extremely chuffed when the tutor says "Super!" at my final attempt ("Sh*t" was word that had sprung to my mind) and although I doubt I'll be rushing back to the class, I feel a sense of satisfaction at having lasted until the end.

After two hours of concentration (and frustration), we're starving and head off to the
Afghan Kitchen on Islington Green. The food was superb.


I'd been apprehensive about the class at first but already I'm enjoying dating David and learning more about him - you think you know someone and then you watch them draw a naked man...


And the scores are in:
  • Originality = 8.5/10 (I didn't see that coming...)
  • Atmosphere = 5/10 (frosty at first but I warmed up after a glass of wine!)
  • Delivery = 7/10 (loved the black envelope - room for improvement when it comes to feeling like a proprer date)
Which means a grand total of 20.5/30 - not bad for the first date...
So the letter 'A' is complete and now the pressure is officially on!



Rebecca x



PS Here are some other letter 'A' suggestions that we've been sent

    Monday, 6 June 2011

    A is for anticipation...

    Today was supposed to be the first of our alphabet dates - the letter 'A'.

    I have pointed out to David that IKEA does not begin with 'A' and that my parents driving us there was not romantic. Although we are a chest of drawers and shoe cabinet better off, I must admit that I was expecting more from him.

    Now, of course, he has even longer to plan so the expectations are a lot higher. I am preparing to be A-mazed...

    Rebecca x