The plan

The plan
It’s simple really - 26 dates over 52 weeks. That’s one for each letter of the alphabet from Ascot to the Zoo.

It seems like we're always out but at the same haunts - a cardinal sin when London has so many other things to offer. We're taking it in turns to organise each date and to come up with the most original and entertaining alternatives to 'dinner and drinks'. There’s no restriction in terms of length of time or cost and after each date, we put a date in the diary for the next one.

OK so the idea isn’t original but hopefully some of our ideas will be. One of my colleagues laughed out loud when I told her the plan - yes, I know it sounds a bit too much like organised fun and no, different sexual positions are not a viable option (look out for Alphasex Dating coming soon).

The blog
This is going to take a while so I wanted to share our experience…and to steal other people’s ideas and suggestions over the coming year. We’re also on Twitter @alphabetdating and welcome emails to
alphabetdating@gmail.com.

Friday 10 June 2011

A is for...art class

"Meet me at Angel station at 6.15pm" instructed David's email. I showed the girls and there followed a flurry of excitement as we discussed what it could be. Having highlighted the fact that simply booking a restaurant beginning with the letter 'A' was not imaginative enough, I know I have put the pressure on him to surprise me.

When I get to the station, there are about 30 people waiting for friends to arrive. David spots me and presents me with a smart black envelope labeled “A is for…”. And inside the words “Art class”. How exciting (and unexpected)!!
David admits that he had had a fairly unproductive day at work, that primarily consisted of printing labels and sticking them on envelopes... I am doubtful that we'll make it to 'Z' but ever the optimist, David insists we'll stick at it.
We arrive at the Candid Gallery where we have a drink in the cute cafe. I'm already feeling a bit nervous, ridiculous as it sounds, fearing that the potential for total humiliation is high. Nevertheless we go down to the studio, where we discover a big group of both regulars and newcomers setting up their sketchbooks and taping paper to the easels. Again I'm impressed that David has done his research and knows that we can buy paper for 25 pence a sheet and charcoal at 25 pence a stick. Others around us have brought their own materials and I can feel a sense of dread in my stomach as I imagine just how awful I am going to be at this. We find a spot in the back corner.

The warm-up terrifies me - David has abandoned me for the loo, I have no idea where to start and can't bring myself to put charcoal to paper. I tentatively draw a line then immediately smudge it out. I fear that this is going to be a long night...

The model makes four or five short poses and during one of these, the tutor, recognising the look of pain on my face (and my frankly shocking first attempt), provides me and David with some advice on where to start and how to get the proportions right. Having never had a drawing class before, it's useful advice and I find the 15-minute poses easier to tackle.

At the break, our tutor tells us about an exhibition launch that's going on upstairs in the gallery space and hands us a free drinks voucher. I almost decline as I'd vowed to give up booze Monday to Friday ahead of my holiday (yes, another one of my half-arsed ideas) but reeling from my poor attempt at 'art', I'm soon downing a glass of red wine.

Two glugs in and I'm reminding David that a) I really don't like being told what to do, b) I don't like being bad at things and c) I haven't done art since I was 14, when I gave it up at the first opportunity. His response is that he knew it was a risk but thought that I'd be game to give it a go. I sometimes think he gives me a bit too much credit... However he is now looking a little forlorn so I reassure him that I'm enjoying the class and vow to myself that I will make more effort in the last section.
Back in the studio, Mike the model is in his final pose. I've forgotten all of the tips I've been given but happily get to work, thanks to that one glass of wine. The alcohol has had the opposite effect on David, who sighs and puffs loudly for the last half an hour.

I'm extremely chuffed when the tutor says "Super!" at my final attempt ("Sh*t" was word that had sprung to my mind) and although I doubt I'll be rushing back to the class, I feel a sense of satisfaction at having lasted until the end.

After two hours of concentration (and frustration), we're starving and head off to the
Afghan Kitchen on Islington Green. The food was superb.


I'd been apprehensive about the class at first but already I'm enjoying dating David and learning more about him - you think you know someone and then you watch them draw a naked man...


And the scores are in:
  • Originality = 8.5/10 (I didn't see that coming...)
  • Atmosphere = 5/10 (frosty at first but I warmed up after a glass of wine!)
  • Delivery = 7/10 (loved the black envelope - room for improvement when it comes to feeling like a proprer date)
Which means a grand total of 20.5/30 - not bad for the first date...
So the letter 'A' is complete and now the pressure is officially on!



Rebecca x



PS Here are some other letter 'A' suggestions that we've been sent

    Monday 6 June 2011

    A is for anticipation...

    Today was supposed to be the first of our alphabet dates - the letter 'A'.

    I have pointed out to David that IKEA does not begin with 'A' and that my parents driving us there was not romantic. Although we are a chest of drawers and shoe cabinet better off, I must admit that I was expecting more from him.

    Now, of course, he has even longer to plan so the expectations are a lot higher. I am preparing to be A-mazed...

    Rebecca x