The plan

The plan
It’s simple really - 26 dates over 52 weeks. That’s one for each letter of the alphabet from Ascot to the Zoo.

It seems like we're always out but at the same haunts - a cardinal sin when London has so many other things to offer. We're taking it in turns to organise each date and to come up with the most original and entertaining alternatives to 'dinner and drinks'. There’s no restriction in terms of length of time or cost and after each date, we put a date in the diary for the next one.

OK so the idea isn’t original but hopefully some of our ideas will be. One of my colleagues laughed out loud when I told her the plan - yes, I know it sounds a bit too much like organised fun and no, different sexual positions are not a viable option (look out for Alphasex Dating coming soon).

The blog
This is going to take a while so I wanted to share our experience…and to steal other people’s ideas and suggestions over the coming year. We’re also on Twitter @alphabetdating and welcome emails to
alphabetdating@gmail.com.

Tuesday 17 July 2012

Alternative 'B' dates

By the way, other ideas for dates beginning with 'B', thanks to the girls at work, include:
Enjoy!
Rebecca x

Sunday 15 July 2012

B is for...brunch and Bauhaus


After almost a year’s wait, I was a little worried with what Rebecca had in mind for the letter ‘B’. Let’s not forget, I had her draw an old guy’s balls for our last date…

I admit I first heard about alphabet dating while listening to the Guardian’s Football Weekly podcast. Yes, useful things can come from football. But no, sadly A is not for Aldershot, B for Barnet etc…

We were both feeling a little worse for wear on the morning of the long awaited date and woke up in a mild state of panic, scrabbling around to find something that would tell us the time. Once we’d realised we weren’t going to be too late, we calmed down. So I was lovingly presented with a little card that read “B is for…brunch and Bauhaus”.

Having worked in Clerkenwell for the last five years until recently, I always knew I’d never made the most of the area. I had my favourite spots, like CafĂ© Kick and Caravan on Exmouth Market, or the Jerusalem Tavern and The Dovetail, but after brunch at The Modern Pantry it became apparent that I’d made a few glaring omissions.
We arrived and waited patiently to be seated, only to be queue jumped by a man claiming he needed to get out of the sun. It was true, he was ginger and looked like he was burning by the second, but still. When we were eventually shown upstairs to our table, we entered a dining room of wooden floorboards painted white, grey walls and a huge gilt framed mirror. This place is pretty much our fantasy lottery home. If we win, we’ll keep the kitchen staff on.

Bloody Marys arrived swiftly, followed by a refreshing elderflower and Earl Grey iced tea for Rebecca and a black coffee for me. We were both struggling with the menu as we wanted everything. In the end, Rebecca opted for poached eggs on toast with haloumi, spinach and slow-roast vine ripened tomatoes while I decided on poached eggs with chorizo and plantain. Heaven. As was a cheeky glass of bubbly.

A short journey followed to take us to the Bauhaus exhibition at the Barbican. I’ve wanted to see this for quite a while and was impressed that Rebecca had made note. Germany in the 1920s and 30s, particularly Berlin, is in my top three time traveling destinations of choice. Happy to skip the 40s.

I love the way so much output from the Bauhaus movement resonates today, from fonts to furniture. The exhibition is a delight and much larger than we had anticipated - from the movement’s origins in Weimar, moving on to Dessau, and finally to its eventual closure in Berlin. One of my favourite objects in the entire collection of the British Museum is a little tea infuser, and it’s here on loan, alongside so many other everyday objects of beautiful simplicity. I’m also surprised to see a fun side as well, not just in the photographs of teachers and students, but also the puppets and children’s toys that were made.
  
Rebecca, as an events planner, loves the photos and invitations from the school’s infamous parties – they had thrown a elaborate themed events, including the ‘white party’, ‘metal party’ (guests entered through a long steel slide) and a ‘beard, nose and heart party’. She intends taking inspiration from the latter for an upcoming wedding…

We leave and I’m very happy with the letter B. I hadn’t really thought too much about what it was going to be and I’ve been suitably impressed. Bamboozled. I’d better get it together for C...

And the scores are in:
  • Originality = 7/10 (I had said I wanted to go to the exhibition, but brunch was a lovely surprise...)
  • Atmosphere = 8/10 (A very relaxing afternoon)
  • Delivery = 7/10 (I liked the card reveal, plus the whole thing was a surprise)
A grand total of 22/30. I'm a point and a half down. Not that we're competitive...it's the thought that counts*.
David

* and winning